Jaden woke up first this morning and I found him on the computer. I asked him "have you had breakfast yet?" He replied "yup, I had cookies:)" Jaden, you can't have cookies for breakfast! He replied "why not, they sure do taste great and I love um!" hahaha
Once again last night Jona was refusing to go to bed and crying and crying unless someone laid with her. She's done this for months now. She falls asleep in a matter of minutes, but wants someone in the room. It doesn't matter that Jaden is right next door sleeping... she wants someone in the room. I told her "stop whining, use your words, what is it that you are afraid of?" Of course she whines more, starts tearing up, can't put words to it. "I'm scared of this, scared of that, I have this, I need that!" Finally I said "JONA, use your words and tell me what you are afraid of and why you need someone in here to fall asleep?" Jona sits up, looks at me and states "Mom, I can't sleep alone, I don't want to sleep alone and for the rest of my life until I die and go to Heaven I do not want to fall asleep alone in my room!" I was stumped as to how to reply. She used words, she shared her feelings, she was clear about her distress, soooo, you guessed it! I laid my darn head down and watched her fall asleep!
CAN YOU SAY SUCKER????????